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How little I knew! When he died I fell in love with somebody 15 years younger than I was — a Hungarian artist — and lived with him for seven years.
In my mid-fifties, however, I found myself single again, and remained so until well into my sixties. The first thing I discovered was the chronic shortage of available men. Like the London sparrows, they had simply disappeared. Most of them were married, of course. And if not, they were chasing younger women. I can understand this — nice firm body, the rejuvenating prospect of starting over again, maybe more kids.
The bald fact is that a man in his sixties or seventies is far more likely to pull than a woman. They did look startlingly old. In a long marriage you age together; in a weird way your spouse remains that young person you first knew, you Mature Vomo Island personals Vomo Island notice the wrinkles and the thickening waist.
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Underneath it all, I was really in mourning for my own youth, for the person I would never be. I also feel — and this may sound ridiculous — that he might not stick with me if I get ill. In a long marriage, the sort of marriages most people used to have, you were together for decades and then one of you had a stroke, or cancer, and the other one mutated into a nurse.
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Some of them slagged-off their ex-wives — not a good.
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All ages. Many people I know have found someone — and good luck to.
In the old days you got married, had children and stuck with each. Marriage ended with death, but nowadays we have to cope with more endings during our lifetime. By my age African american pussy have a huge amount of experience under our belts, but love can make fools of us, all over.
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