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I have barely any straight friends. Atoka OK wife swapping longest, most serious relationship was with a trans man. But deep down I feel like bisexual people are especially mistrusted in my community, particularly when we're in functionally heterosexual relationships.

I felt like I couldn't bring my boyfriend around my friends because he was so painfully straight and not well versed in culturally queer things. And I admittedly feel insecure about dating men and not being 'queer enough' to hang.

They talk to me as if I'm straight When I mention women I dated in the past people sometimes say, 'Oh, were you a college lesbian? Which is, y'know, hurtful. This whole piece of my identity, and relationships that mattered to me, are being treated liked ghosts. Not even ghosts. More like something that never existed.

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And then a trans man. And then my friends stopped talking to me and I was called breeder and I was excommunicated from the gay and lesbian community.

I have been in relationships with many biological men and biological women, many trans men and women, and a few gender neutral lovers have come into my Smoke hard San Juan and fuck with a bbc as. I feel like I can't go to queer dance parties and I can't talk about my love life with my closest friends, who are gay or lesbian.

My queerness is less valid than other people's when I love a man. I can see why you thought that, but I'm bisexual.

Married man seeks bi girl was telling me about a conversation he'd had with a mutual acquaintance of. I had come up in this conversation, and my colleague, a gay man, had told our acquaintance that I was straight.

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Sometimes when I am particularly anxious, I find myself questioning whether I'm actually attracted to women, or if I'm just buying into the patriarchal, heterosexualized image of Woman, if that makes sense.

It's hard to navigate the divide between being attracted to someone and admiring someone, I guess. We've been together for seven years and so far I've been able to restrain myself from cheating, but I guess there's always next year.

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At the same time, I struggle with why it matters whether I out myself or not, and how much I can and should contribute to bi visibility when I'm in a monogamous partnership.