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Is this something all people in relationships contend with? Will I grow out of it? Is there something missing from my relationship?
How do I block out societal expectations of women and continue to grow into a more genuine person who gains validation and happiness from within? This is the mind-set that a patriarchal society enforces, one deed to keep women from defining success in ways unrelated to male adoration.
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It will certainly help to steer clear of entertainment that traffics in these toxic messages. How did the men and women in your family define success?
What messages did you receive from friends?
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